Grass isn't any greener on the of other side of the fence, I can truly relate to this phase, however in a totally different context. Just over a year ago I was pressured into doing something that really wasn't feeling right. I was unwell at the time and a little unhappy with where I found myself, yet still the pressure to make a change never felt right.
I knew almost instantly that I had made a mistake, but I shut up, and kept quiet. But things went from bad to worse, until I knew that I had to go back to the way things were.
I learnt several valuable lessons.
Never allow yourself to be bullied into doing something that doesn't sit right, even by so called friends.
And don't make big life-changing decisions, when you are unwell.
Mostly, I have learnt that absolutely no one has your best interests in mind, mostly it's about them and what they get out of the situation.
This year I have had two serious accidents, both connected to my back, which indicated to me the lack of support I have. Especially, connected to the situation I found myself in. No one cared.
When I was well enough, I reached out to see if I could return to the way things were and I was received with open arms. It took a couple of months to set up the transition, and now it's all over and life is now settling down and happy once again...
5 comments:
I have been in a similar situation too. You have to stop and think before making any important decisions.
My email address is skz@comcast.net I would like yours to comment back when you comment to me.
Trust your instincts! That has worked for me over the years.
Tried sending two emails, but they kept bouncing back. Left my email in a comment on your page. Maybe try sending one to me?
Yes indeed, don't make hasty decisions.
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