Ever noticed how much time people spend moaning about what is not right in their lives? These same people see the negative side of every situation, always think that everyone else is better off than they are, nothing goes right for them and on and on they moan. I do often say to people like this that if they projected positive outcomes for these so called 'dramas' in their lives they would see a shift in the circumstances that surround them. Do they? No! Why? Because they like to be where they are, unhappy and moaning because that is who they have chosen to become. Can they change? Of course, it is as simple as changing their thinking, replacing the 'problems' with serenity and the peace of a free flowing harmonious life, simple really.