Charlie is struggling with the loss of Nala, like me he misses how cuddly Nala was. Charles is one who needs a snuggle partner, even in the hot weather. At night he now sleeps next to me, rarely moving during the night. In fact, the closer the better, as Nala normally slept close to me.
This afternoon I wandered in to see this beautiful vision. Charlie and Bear snuggling up having a midday siesta.
Mourning isn't just something reserved for humans; animals too mourn their loved ones deeply.
Living as closely with animals as I do, I have witnessed many moments where their strong emotional ties are evident.
Before my beloved Aslan passed, he was always deeply affected by the passing of one of his hens. I always showed Aslan the body when one of his girls passed. He would bring the other hens, and he would dance around her cooing, trying to attract her attention. When nothing happened, he would stand and look, before turning and slowing walking away with his remaining harem in tow. The other amazing thing he always did, he came back to watch as I placed his girl in the ground. He would stand and watch, saying goodbye as his loved one was returned to the earth.
Grieving takes as long as it takes. And to me, a loved one is a loved one even if they aren't in human form.
Those of us who form connections with animals rather than with humans do so because we find that these interactions are far deeper and pure than any relationship with a human can possibly be...