Thursday, February 04, 2010

Not All Of Us............

Not all of us are surrounded by love from the moment we are born into this life, some have planned their life story a little differently, they have to endure and work through layers of emotional, mental and physical traumas before they can move to a place of love, to come out a whole and balanced person, sadly some never do! Don't regret that which has past. Hold no anger towards things you can not change. Stay in the present, the Now is the only time which is currently relevant to your life story. Realise that when true inner growth comes, so too does great pain and heart wrenching lessons. Karma is not about retribution, nor is it about how another person/s treat you, it is about how you react to the person or situation that will highlight where you are on your personal story. If you have learnt from the lessons of the past then you will handle upsetting and angry situations with love in your heart, even if it is you that is the target for abuse. Those that can not look directly into their heart to deal with and heal the hurt within themselves will lash out to others causing no end of hurt and pain to deviate the focus away from the root cause of their unhappiness, themselves. These people will blast all their negative energy towards others, quite often family members who they feel have given them a rough deal, often not willing to understand that the person who they blame was doing the best that they were capable of at the time, and in most cases no longer resemble the person that they were at that time in the past, they fail to see that the cause of their misery is instigated by none other than themselves, thus a feud fueled with hatred, blame and malicious gossip is birthed, in some cases lasting a lifetime. Watching these people weave a web of destruction around them is indeed a difficult position to find yourself in, as it is not our right to interfere into what another chooses as their truth, however misguided or twisted time has created this to be. Being judged and ridiculed by third parties who listen to rumours can be soul destroying if you play into the drama. To stand in your own power, and to send love is the only thing you can do, trusting that the lesson required for all concerned will be accomplished and healing will be forthcoming. This of course is not always the case, often one party will move through the baggage and be ready to step forward into a new and healthy relationship, however, that may not mean that other parties are in tune with their growth, in this case the only thing to do is to stand firm in the vibration of love and wait, which of course requires great inner strength, as to manipulate an others reality is no way to manifest a truly loving solution to the dysfunction that blossoms out of control. We can not change what has been done in the past, but we can heal anything with forgiveness of the self and of others by maintaining an open and loving heart, sometimes it is done overnight, could take a few years or it may take a lifetime. True love transcends all, it sees through the smokescreens of bitterness and lies, we are all one, each a part of the other, all races, all sexes, all one together. One day, perhaps more of us will see past the culture of blame and begin to understand the divine essence of unconditional love........

6 comments:

Jaky Astik said...

Gemel, why don't you prepare a book from all these teaching on your blog? Publish it. I'll be your first reader. I know you can be a hot selling author!

And I'm serious. Do it.

GYPSYWOMAN said...

beautiful beautiful post, lady! so insightfully said and brings a message to us all - and thanks so much for all your comments over at my places! they mean so much!

Ronda Laveen said...

The lesson on karma and where one is on their spiritual path is very well stated, Gemel.

Lovely.

Nancy said...

Beautiful, Gemel. This post has great wisdom, and I will continue to reflect on what you've said. I do believe we will continue to be given opportunities to heal, what we need to heal, until the deed is done.

Melissa said...

thank you for your beautiful words.

Your such a great help to me.

Natural Moments said...

I agree with everyone else....beautiful words allowing us to see beauty in everything.

There are certainly infinite expressions and combinations to be explored. Nothing should be taken personally unless we want to experience the attachment or the detachment from something that is outside of our selves. It all gives us something unique to feel and to take with us. Relativity provides everyone with there own unique ride in this vast amusement park.